So, I have a problem

OK maybe not a problem but definitely something I need to get over. (Actually I have quite a few of these but, one thing at a time. (and thank you julesk for putting up with me whining about most of them)

( So here it is. )

A request

As noted by Monday's post and in passing last night, I am trying to blog on a regular basis. Both here and on a real professional type blogger blog. I am remembering that I like to write, it helps me think. I am also realizing that my 9th grade grammar foundation seems to have erroded quite a bit. Which side of but does the comma go on? Am I using i.e. correctly? And probably a slew of other things I don't even know that I don't know. So a request to all of you reading who care about grammar. If I screw it up, leave a comment. I will happily try to absorb and implement the info. Also any recommendations for a good writer's reference guide. Somewhere that I can go when I know that I don't know how to do something?

Thanks!